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Problems - Choose it or loose to it

"Life is choosing between problems. Choose the ones you like"....Havent heard of it! Obviously, bcoz its my creation.
Lets dig into it now!. There are people who try to run away from problems but do you think its possible for them to stay away from it for a long time....how many times have we seen this in life, we feel we have escaped from a problem but the next instant there is another problem that has crept up. So does that phrase "Running away from problems" ever come true? Nope!
Lets look at various senarios...
1. There is a guy. He loves a girl. But they dont accept her at his house...he has two options, he can marry that girl and face the problems at home or marry someone else or may be even stay unmarried. But are the alternatives going to be without problems. NOPE!
2. There is an employee. As alwayz he expects a promotion. There is a stressfull and risky job coming up. He can either take it or considering it as a problem try avoiding it. But if does not take the problem up is he going to be out of problems!
We can go on and on and on with examples.
The truth remains that no one can escape from problems. They are universal and inevitable. There is not one path, place or activity in the whole of this universe which does not provide us with problems.
What if instead of running away from the problems we start choosing the ones we like.
Example in the case of the guy, he loves a girl why can he marry her and face the problems, here he chose his problem instead if he doesnt choose his problem he would be loosing her and yet get into other problems, who says there would be no problem if he marries another girl. Might be this problem wouldnt be there but there will surely be yet another problem. Same holds good in each of the situation we come across in our life.
Its better we choose the ones we like other than loose to the problems.
So what do u say? Shall we choose our problems!

posted by Nidi @ 11:15 PM